Boys.

My aunt set me up with a boy in January. He sounded hopeful- he was in law school, his parents were the same religion as me, we both lived in the same city... there was so much in common it was great. He was come for vacation in January and we went out three times and talked for hours, I was so excited that I did not date anyone until he came back from school in May. So he's been back three months and to his credit, I have been away for three weeks, but he's made no effort to contact me. And the bad thing is we've been talking through FB, which always makes this weird. He's been writing a comic book script and wants to act it out with me. Weird, I know. I creeps me out, but considering we had such a great time in the winter I was somewhat willing to overlook the weirdness because he never talked about it in person. When I in fact told him I'd rather just go get coffee or talk, he started complaining about how he's so stressed, he might not go back to school, etc etc etc. Very whiney, very unstable. Again, creepy. Despite my better judgement he asked to come over my house after work yesterday around 8. He didn't come, he didn't call. Not even "Hey I'm tired, lets meet another night" and he's done this before. I'm sick of waiting around for 'dates' that he never shows for. Really. As perfect as he once seemed, I'm over it. I'm not waiting anymore, if he was serious as I am about finding a long term relationship, he'd have at least found an hour of his time for me this summer.

I'll probably try eharmoney this fall. I'm very comfortable with my life at the moment and in some cases don't want a relationship but at the same time, I want a husband and kids so I know that it doesn't happen over night. Dating won't hurt, it's not like he'll be moving in next week! Everyone around me is getting married. Why not me? What's so wrong? Dating is hard too, because you get a lot of crazies! How do you sort them out? How do you meet them when you work with women all day? I'm not going to find my husband in a bar... no way!